Based on Terry Real’s Essential Relationship Skills Bootcamp, this two-day intensive is designed to deliver the kind of deep, transformative work that typically takes 7–10 months in traditional therapy. Through a mix of teaching, experiential exercises, and video demonstrations, you’ll walk away with a new understanding of yourself and your relationships—and tools you can start using right away.

Unlike traditional therapy, this workshop is less emotionally intense, making it more accessible, affordable, and—honestly—more doable for many people. Whether you attend solo or with a partner, whatever your relationship status or orientation, if you’re ready to grow, you’re welcome here. And, don’t worry, you’re not forced to “do” anything! You can be as active or as observant as you choose to be.

Why Bootcamp Might Be Right for You

Condensed learning: 14 hours of relational education in one weekend
Safe, group-based setting: Learn and grow without being in the hot seat
Cost-effective: Far less time and money than months of therapy
Science-backed: Neuroscience shows we learn best when we feel safe
You’re not alone: Practice skills with others who are on the same journey

What to Expect

A two-day weekend format (Saturday + Sunday)
20–40 people in a classroom-style learning environment
Partner and group activities—with the freedom to pass on anything that doesn’t feel right
Confidentiality and safety are prioritized

What You Will Learn

You’ll identify the patterns that keep you stuck—whether it’s shutting down, lashing out, avoiding conflict, or something sneakier—and replace them with relational skills that work.

Expect aha moments, shared insights, and tools you’ll return to again and again.

Topics include:

How to stop ineffective communication in its tracks
What your reactions say about your unmet needs
How to repair conflict quickly and meaningfully
How to reconnect in ways that build trust and intimacy
Tools for managing triggers and emotional flooding

What You’ll Walk Away With

Clarity on what drives your patterns—and how to shift them
Real tools for managing conflict, emotion, and connection
Insight into your own nervous system and relationship wiring
A deep understanding of the cycle of connection, disconnection, and repair
A renewed sense of possibility and direction in your relationships

Who Should Join?

Couples looking to strengthen their connection, improve communication, and sustain intimacy.
Individuals looking to overcome their barriers to intimacy and cultivate more meaningful relationships.
Mental health professionals looking to deepen their understanding of the RLT model, incorporate RLT with their partner, and/or facilitate their own Relationship Bootcamps. 12 CEUs pending approval

Why Choose Breta?

With direct training from Terry Real himself and from many wonderful faculty members at the Relational Life Institute, I’ve guided hundreds of folks through this life-changing work. I don’t just teach the material—I live it.

My style is warm, down-to-earth, and real. You’ll get practical strategies, compassionate guidance, and a supportive environment to learn and grow. My mission is to help people move out of stuck patterns and into connection, clarity, and empowerment. I can help you learn to LIVE and LOVE better.

Upcoming Workshops:

October 18 & 19, 2025

February, 2026 date TBD

Time:

Saturday: 9:00AM - 5:00PM

Sunday: 9:00AM - 5:00PM

Location:

Queens University of Charlotte

Charlotte, NC

Cost:

$550 for individual

$1100 for couple

pending CE approval for mental health professionals

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